Women Who Care for Everyone Else Deserve Care Too

The person who cares for everyone is rarely asked if she is tired

Some women are especially good at caring for others. When family plans need arranging, they step in; when a friend is heartbroken, they stay late; when work needs extra help, they do more. Over time, people see them as reliable and capable, but rarely ask, “Are you tired?”

Stepping down from the caregiver role for a while

For some women, booking with a male massage therapist is not only about sore muscles. It is a way to step out of the caregiver role for a while. During that time, she does not need to organise anyone else’s needs, ease anyone else’s emotions or reply to a string of messages. Attention can return to her own body: where it feels tense, tired or ready to soften.

Receiving care is not weakness

Receiving care is not weakness. Being able to acknowledge the need for rest is a responsible form of self-care. Clear communication before a session, respect for feedback throughout and the ability to adjust or stop at any moment are basic conditions that help a client feel at ease.